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When we have a couple of hours at our disposal, we can make use our time much more effectively by talking to a lot of people. Doing so naturally leads us to talking to the person we want to meet, and gives us a chance to warm up and get in a sociable mood, rather than seeing the room like an assassin and going for the one guy right off the bat.
If you see just one person you like and focus on him, you will build up the pressure in anticipation of speaking to him and psyche yourself out. Having not spoken to anyone else you won’t be ‘warmed up’ and going in with any real level of energy will be tough.
The first thing to make sure of when entering a venue is that you stop and look around.
Like mice, so many people enter a room and run to find the nearest cover. People scour for somewhere to hide, something to stand behind, or the bar to turn their attention away from the room.
As you enter, just stand there. Let everyone look, own that moment, and let people take you in for a few seconds.
Look around, scan the room, make eye contact with a few people and absorb things.
Have interactions with the people who are in proximity to you.
Move around the room and interact quickly with the people around you. This can be as simple as getting eye contact, saying “hi, how’re you doing?”, and exchanging names as you go by.
That’s it, nothing more.
People won’t always know what to make of this, but they think it’s cool, and as most will only ever be out with two or three friends, by doing this you’re immediately becoming their third or fourth best friend in the whole venue!
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